Saturday, October 20, 2012

EGO, Why?

Dear God,
I had a question to ask from you.
Why do people get angry.
I really fail to understand why does this happen. I am not saying that you should not feel bad about something that happens to you or you should not stand for the rights if you or someone else is getting deprived of in the course of this lifetime.
My question is what was the need of creating such a mechanism in the body that as soon as we get angry our blood pressure pops up and we start behaving violently. Soon our talking pitch changes and we start speaking foul or insulting words. Is this helping any one? Not only this I do not know what type of stupid mechanism you have created that when a person gets angry his processing power reduces whereas his memory power increases(Obviously he starts plucking out old dug matters and also remembers all the replies of that conversation for his life).
And then emerges the most disturbing human emotion created by you ever on earth (just like missiles and weapons invented by us), EGO. I mean what was the use of creating such a thing? If Steve Jobs and Bill Gates were good friends and has similar futuristic view towards technology, why could not they work together, I'm sure we would have been sitting on a Windows 100 or iMac 99 today itself. Of course there would have been creative differences but they were irreconcilable just because of your good creation i.e. EGO. Why couldn't America, Russia and Japan together work and use the whole money and expertise of theirs to make this world a better place to live in? Just because of EGO. They fought and mankind was slaughtered on streets to satisfy the ego of the attacker.
Why Romney, Bush and Obama are not able to sit together and work on the issues of the world ? Is it necessary to see only one to emerge as the President. Why cant the whole world be the President of the country called The United States Of The Earth.
There is a lot more to ask but as you know I also have other commitments to fulfill. Will enquire further some other day for the. But please prepare a reply till then.

Friday, October 12, 2012


Bigg Boss Season 6 (Big Brother in UK) is on air and seriously this is the TV Show I have admired the most in my life.

Actually its a reality TV show where 10-15 people go to spend 90 days of their life in house together (generally celebrities) who do not even know each other.
Day by day when they take life ahead with each other during the process of managing  day-to day problems and the tasks given by Bigg Boss their personal character starts getting exposed with the efflux of time.
The best part is that all this is monitored under around 100 cameras and the cordless microphones given to all the contestants.
 At the beginning of every week each contestant nominates two contestants who should be evicted at the end of that week secretly in bigg boss's private chamber(sometimes this is done openly and creates quite a ruckus) with the negative reason for nominating them(The reason is compulsorily to be provided). The tally is summed up and people with the highest votes are opened to face public voting and the person who receives the least votes get evicted at the end of that week.
The people left in the last week(Generally 2-3) are all nominated and the person with highest votes gets to win the game.


According to me, it has the philosophy of life in it.

  • When we take birth in this world, we are open to a new place which we naturally do not want to leave till the last breath. 
  • We meet people which are at all unknown to us (including our family) and slowly we start knowing them and understanding their importance in our life.
  •  God (Bigg Boss) has given us the task to overcome all the challenges that come in our way and sometimes the tasks given by him.
  • Our deeds are being constantly watched by God and his committee which is managing the world above as he has also fitted his cameras and microphones all around the world.
  • But God never calls us up or ends our life on his judgement.
  • The people who do not like us or our deeds tell God about us to him in their prayers and the more nominations we get, the more chances are their to be evicted.
  • The Best part is that then the committee decides by voting which human being should have a longer stay in Bigg Boss's House and which one should be evicted by voting(after all they are the audience to the show).
  • So you must be nice to people (so that they dont nominate you) and even nice to Bigg Boss and his house (work hard and complete your tasks for betterment of yourself and the world) to have a long and fun filled stay in this world.
And Yes Never Make Bigg Boss Angry as then he will ask you to tell infront of this world whom you dont like and this will create quite of a ruckus as told above.

So Lets take an oath today, that we will try to keep all the fellow contestants happy and also complete all the tasks given by Bigg Boss along with running the daily chores of life.
AFTER ALL I WANT TO WIN THIS GAME. LETS SEE WHO GET THE LEAST NOMINATIONS AND EVEN IF NOMINATED WHO IS LIKED THE MOST BY THE COMMITTEE WATCHING MY PERFORMANCE.

Thursday, October 11, 2012

SUCCESS

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When a person sees these pictures the first words that probably would come to his mind can be defeat, loss, annoyance or such other negative words but for me they define SUCCESS. I do not know how many people would coincide with my feelings but these expression can mean nothing but a sign of being successful  in life according to me.

What is success? People have many interpretations or versions of defining success. But according to me the day when a person has nothing more important than his passion left in his life is the day he should be termed as successful. 
We have numerous problems in our life. These family disturbances and matters which never come to an end and then is this office politics which is mushrooming like anything. Moreover, boss is not at all happy with my performance and if he is then there are some colleagues who are sad because boss is happy with us. Not only this , the loans are not getting settled and the savings target is still  not achieved and the house and car I had dreamt of   looks far away.Health looks to deteriorate and whenever try to forget all this a social activist stands up in the society for coruption/joblessness/price rise and the tension for the sentiment crops up. We have so much pressure on our shoulders. But yes, the day I get a million dollar lottery I think all the problems will get solved.
These are the general problems faced by people in life. But according to me these are just like some different coloured spectacles that we are wearing and looking towards life. Like Say there is a green spectacle of our being cashless at this moment so that whenever see something we always see it in monetary terms or say the red one is for family politics going on and due to this whenever we talk to a relative we feel he is either taunting or trying to butter on us to make us feel better.
But yes this colour fades away in sunlight of life but our eyes are the only place where this sunlight falls?
No, if we remove these heavy goggles the also they van get fade away lying on the study table at home.
Look at these pictures do they even have any of these problems in life? No.
Then why are they so unhappy? Because they do not have the spectacles on their nose.
Then what?? They are crystal clear on their vision .
Mr. Federer just wants to win every tennis game he plays in life. Bill Gates just wants that every software he develops has something unique and can reinvent technology. Warren Buffet wants to prove that if he has picked a scrip it has to give good returns in future he cries when he get red marks of loss on his portfolio. Prove to themselves that yes they can do it and getting defeated really annoys them.
A PERSON WHO CAN FEEL THE SAME FOR HIS PASSION IN THE SAME WAY CAN ONLY BE TERMED AS A SUCCESSFUL PERSON.
So lets remove these problems from our face and lay them to fade on our Study Table. Just lets follow our passion and be unhappy only when we are unable to feel passionate after all we want to be successful people?